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Sunday, 06 January 2008

  • Why Sex is Out of the Question!

    This is something I wrote awhile back... At a time when it seemed like all my friends, as well as I, were going through so many hard times that were involved with males... And I sat and thought, REALLY thought, about all the parallels between the situations... And this is what I came up with:

    Original Composition Date: Sometime in October, 2007

    I was sitting here reflecting on my previous "relationships" and flings and stuff... and also thinking about all of my friends' "relationships" and things that I've been told about, found out about, etc... And I decided that sex is the reason for a lot of problems and heartache!

    A lot of females have sex too soon... whether it is to get a guy, or to keep him.  The female catches more feelings after the sex because it's natural/typical for females to equate sex with love & relationships... whereas the guy isn't thinking like that.

    So if it's too early that this happens, then the guy may think a few different things... either (1) this woman's easy, let me not get too into her because if she gave it up to me this soon she probably did it and will do it with other people... (2) All this girl wants is sex, so I don't have to make her my woman... or (3) the chase is over, on to the next bitch...

    Whereas, if females wait... the guy's feelings have time to develop, he'll be less likely to just drop the female afterwards, AND he'll have a better opinion on her (not thinking she's fast or easy).

    AND on top of that, waiting gives females time to find out if the guy really is worth giving their bodies to, or if he's just another "playa"/"dog".

    So if the female has to get rid of him or he gets rid of her, it won't be so hard on her because she won't feel like she played herself by sleeping with someone who wasn't worth it.

    So... this is why I have decided not to have sex with anyone who is not my man. Since I don't just get into a relationship with just anyone, there are always feelings involved... and even once a guy is my man, he's still going to have to wait; just so I can make sure he's a good one.

    No casual sex on my platter... No physical without the mental & emotional!

     

Friday, 04 January 2008

  • Currently Listening
    My Boo
    By Ghost Town DJs
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    How I Feel... a poem about my L.F.K.

    A lil' more than a best friend
    Not quite     my boo
    I've been trying to work out
    Just how I feel about you
    You invade my     dreams
    Both at night and in day
    I think about you constantly
    In a loving-type way…
    Before you get     shocked
    Don't get me wrong
    My feelings aren't all-consuming
    Though they are strong
    Do I have love for you?
    Very much so…
    Am I in love with you?
    I don't think so…
    To be     in love with you
    I'd have to fall
    My heart couldn't take that
    It's circled by a wall
    I've been hurt before
    Don't want to hurt again
    You're right in saying
    We gotta work it out as friends
    A part of that, too
    Is knowing you don't feel the same
    Compared to my feelings for you
    Your feelings are tame…
    My hope is eventually
    Your feelings will mature
    And we'll be able to fly together
    Like an eagle, we'll soar
    But for now I'll play it your way
    Take time to be friends
    Walk this path slowly
    And see where it ends…

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  • Let me start off by saying, I LOVE MARY J BLIGE & CHRIS BROWN! And if I ever saw Chris Brown, I'd kidnap him and make him sing to me for hours at a time every day! Just joking, lol... Okay, I'm done with my groupie moment... On to my self-love moment, lol! I do love myself very much and respect myself to the highest... Which means I will never EVER degrade myself to please another human being. I just am not that type of girl--- excuse me, WOMAN. Hand in hand with my previous statement goes my next statement: If a person comes at me in a disrespectful manner, they will get put on to what it REALLY is very quickly. If someone is stepping to me, they need to do it correctly, with their mind right, and their life together. If that is not the case, they may as well not step to me at all. Yes I have said it before and I will say it again: COME CORRECT OR NOT AT ALL!

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